Showing posts with label babies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label babies. Show all posts

Saturday, August 9, 2014

Body & Skin Rejuvenation : Breakfast, Lunch & Dessert with Ultimate ProFIT!

Body & Skin Rejuvenation : Breakfast, Lunch & Dessert with Ultimate ProFIT!: It's been too long since I've shared... and I can't decide which one I'm more excited about, the Ultimate ProFIT that I am g...

Stop Working, Start Living

I am defining the meaning of "Doing it All" lately and went completely MIA from this page... my apologizes. I have gladly throwing myself into a new business and decided to go 'balls to the walls,' because I can't wait to get to the top so that I can enjoy the freedom of not stressing. Not stressing, is that possible? It is... I've constantly worried about what I am going to do when both boys are in school, contributing in some way financially to the household, and most importantly wondering how I will buy all the shoes and purses I have dreamt of!? I worry no more...

Basically, when I was getting my tattoo done back in February and my artist was telling me about her new business, It Works, and I really thought it had nothing to do with myself and focused on the pain rather than what she was telling me...

I should've listened a little closer, but thank God she decided to email me a few months later and give me some more information on this amazing company and the opportunities that were available (bonuses, monthly pay check, cash, etc)

I had prayed months before that the Gods would send me a happy future where I was working in health/wellness/beauty and that I would make a satisfactory income and be able to stay at, or close to home. These prayers and thoughts began when someone presented another comany to me that wasn't based on anything I was passionate about, or truly cared for. I wanted their drive, but not for that product... I wasn't even sure if I wanted anything to do with network marketing, pyramid schemes, and never thought I'd find something that was completely done out of my home.

I read her email a few times, mentioned it to my husband and figured I'd lose my interest within a few days anyway. Unlike with the previous opportunity presented to me, I couldn't get this one out of me head... I woke up thinking about it, I dreamt about it, and I saw people on FB saying their lives were changing!? Now I was hooked...

After going to the company's website, I researched for hours and found myself engulfed with the stories, testimonies and idea of sharing these products. That's right, I wanted to share these wraps, defining gel, greens, etc NOT sell them. I knew so many people that could benefit from what It Works offered and that if I didn't jump aboard now, I was an idiot.

So, all in that same month I turned 30, went to Las Vegas, and made a life changing decision after I realized that I wasn't gong to shake the thought of being a 'Wrap Girl' I signed up as a distributor and haven't looked back! The investment alone was the cost of making a purchase anyway... just $99 and it was returned when I sold the 4 wraps that I received in my starter it. 

The greatest benefit of signing up with It Works Global, has not been the investment return, or the quick "wrap cash." It has been the solid relationships I have already built, the mentors that have stepped up to show me the 'Steps to Success,' and the 'One Team One Mission' attitude that everyone carries. We are all ready to take ourselves to the top and we are only just beginning so the support is undeniable, the ability to grow and make yourself one of the top income earners is not impossible, it's actually very doable!

The time is NOW as the company is continuing their offering of the $10,000 G.O.O.D Bonus, and at the beginning of August 2014 implemented the $20,000 Too G.O.O.D Bonus. What are these!? Get Out Of Debt!!

If you achieve Diamond level in the first 90 days on board with It Works, you will be rewarded a $10,000 bonus! This is happening several times a month and people are blowing it out of the water!

It gets even better with the Too G.O.O.D Bonus, because they are not giving just one distributor this bonus, but they will be drawing the names of 20 distributors that qualify themselves, and they can qualify multiple times!! The most entries currently by one distributor is 4, which means if they her name 4 she will have $80,000 to help pay off her debts! On top of her average income...

So what are you waiting for...? I'm ready to take you on, have you on my team, help you work and make your dreams come true! Make the dreams a reality by putting the fears aside, set your eyes on the prize and get ready to change your life and those around you!

"The power of one affirmative thought is hundreds of times more powerful than a negative thought."

The power of the energy that you put out is so much greater than you give it credit for. You choose your destiny when you wake up and allow the unhappiness to take over and the rest of your day becomes consumed with negativity. You must shift your thoughts into the things that you want and see them happening before your very eyes. Before it even exists, you must live it.

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Saturday, January 25, 2014

Overcoming Post Pardum Depression

There are several degrees of sadness that can be involved after having a baby and you may think it's just some "Baby Blues," or you may be suffering from Postpardum depression and truly need some help. You probably don't want to share your feelings with just anyone or at all because you are afraid of their response and that it will be embarrassing. You will look crazy, like a bad mom and you know that you don't need help with your baby, right? It may feel this way, but it's not true and you need to find the right person, even if it's your advice nurse, counselor, or 911.

I'm not qualified to tell you what you may be dealing with, but I know that after 2 kids in 3 years it was difficult to remember who I was and what being "Happy" truly meant. Seeking help was the hardest thing to do for all of the reasons above and couldn't even use words and share what I was going through, I sent a text. After I found my way out of the darkest hole I'd ever fallen into and could barely ask for help that I decided I had to put it out there and hopefully help those that are also feeling helpless and alone.

When you hear your baby cry do you cringe, feel your heart race, blood boil and wish that you were anywhere else but where you are? Are you cursing yourself because you feel you are an evil person for hating the tiniest and most innocent being you brought into this world? You cry all the time, can't eat, think about hurting others, yourself, death, etc? The anger you are feeling is being targeted at everyone that crosses your path and if you're in a relationship there's a chance that it's taking it's toll and you believe you are going to lose your partner and lose your baby for being a hateful and abusive?

Hopefully you're not envisioning or actually physically abusing your baby, or maybe you do and find yourself feeling this in extreme moments of frustration. If this is the case you need to find help ASAP. You need to put the baby down in another room, walk away and call someone and if no one close to you is available call 911 and go get a neighbor. You are not a failure, you are not bad, you are a human being that is feeling overwhelming emotions and needs someone to understand and there's far more of us suffering from this than you realize.

What's most shocking is hearing how common it is for mothers to feel a level of depression or sadness after having a baby and don't share it at all. We just aren't able to seek the help as easily because shame and embarrassment causes us to sugar coat situations and make life seem blissful when it's anything but. Yes, there are women out there that find their post pardum experience to be very wonderful and easy and rather than envy, be grateful they aren't being forced into this awful place that you are. Tell yourself that you will be a stronger, better woman for finding a positive way to deal with this and turn your life around.

My biggest fear was that it would take me too long to get back to a level of "normalcy" and how would I ever have the love and bond with my second son as I did with my first when I spent the first 2 months of his life resenting his existence? Luckily I did research myself and sought help early on because I knew the thought and emotions I was experiencing were not okay, nor was I okay with having these thoughts and emotions.

After looking into every resource possible I decided to go against my usual choice and take a doctor prescribed medication, Prozac (Fluoxetine Hcl). Knowing the potential side affects I figured that along with cardio (8wks post C-section) it would balance itself out and I'd be "happy" again in no time and loving everyone, not just my oldest son, whom I clung to.


After a few months of being on prescribed medication and denying a family member's offer to send me to a Doctor of natural medicine the emotions were no longer present, but neither was any emotion for that matter. The attachment to my oldest was becoming less and rather my annoyances more frequent. Overall I was numb, forcing myself to stay afloat and find something to make me feel like a human being with interests and passions again. So, I returned to work serving tables a few nights a week.

My personal solutions may not necessarily be yours and the biggest struggle we have is finding something we love and making time for ourselves to do it. I tried the medicine, going back to work and the cardio still did nothing for me. My relationship was rocky, my oldest was enrolled in preschool and #2 was proving every stereotype of the second baby being easier to be wrong. So what I tried next and what I swear by to this day and forever will might blow your mind, not surprise you at all, or make you say no fucking way!?

HOT YOGA.

Before depression and children I had always thought that yoga was for people that were already flexible, or didn't really want to do real cardio. Do they even sweat and get their heart rate up? Oh yes. And if you're doing it in 105 degree heat you better believe you will be sweating like a hog and feeling exhausted, yet amazing afterwards. Don't assume hot yoga is what you need to do and start googling the nearest location, but do ask yourself what is it that you makes you  happiest as an individual? What do you want to do for yourself? You may need to seek postpardum therapy to help get answers to these questions and while you're not sure what you'll benefit from talking to a stranger, you're certainly not benefiting from being alone.

Being a part of something and feeling a connection with others and yourself is the most natural way to begin healing. Within a few months of going on a regular basis I felt like a new woman and knew as long as I could maintain this routine that I would be okay without additional medication. Benefits of yoga go far beyond added flexibility and physical wellness, it will heal your mental and emotional spirit too. (http://www.yogajournal.com/lifestyle/2562)

Don't give up on yourself and don't give all your energy to the negative thoughts and feelings, rather fight back with that energy and find yourself. Now is your time, 1, 2, 3+ kids doesn't change that you were a person before they came into this world. How will you guide them, teach them and show them what life is about if you are unsure yourself? Maybe you can start learning together :)







Friday, January 17, 2014

Cheers!

Last time I was here it was a different version of me all together. I don't think I need to go back in time and explain why my views were a little more negative and I'm sure in time on here it will be easier to understand!

I am the ultimate stay at home mom that does it "all," and while I don't succeed everyday, it's my goal to keep shit clean, keep the people fed, keep myself pretty and keep sharing my hot mess of a life because if I don't, I'll go fucking crazy.

Wait, I did go crazy and that's pretty much why I disappeared. House Full of Heads was not what I wanted it to be, the stories I told were not taken in the context they were intended. Now that I've found a better voice I know that I will tell it how I mean it and if it's taken any other way, it's not my problem.

My problem is people and toddlers and babies that scream too much. Mine are just as guilty as the other lil monsters and have caused me to "runaway" on several occasions. Since I can't actually travel far away, dress up every night and have dinner parties on a regular I figured this is the place that I can! I'm here to share my awesomeness and how I "do it all!" ;)

Thursday, January 16, 2014

I apologize in advance if I offend you...(okay, no I don't)


I apologize in advance if I offend you because if I apologize later for saying what I feel, it's like apologizing for being real. Which I am. Just consider me the 30yr old version of Miley Cyrus (with a better ass) and you're a part of my movement. That, or you're just looking for someone to show you how to do it all!

I wake up to two of the most handsome lil monsters in the world and before the day is done I have changed a handful of shitty diapers, cleaned the shitty diapers my dog ate because I didn't throw them away fast enough, made three meals and cleaned them up, went to the park, went to the store and cussed someone out on the way, pinned a hundred fashion, food and funny quotes on Pinterest while entertaining the monsters. The only thing is that I like to look pretty while I do it all!

By all means I am not implying that I've got heels and a dress on, this isn't the 1950's and although I'm a domestic Goddess my husband isn't my supervisor and this is MY castle. Just take off the "give ups" aka your sweats, take a fucking shower for God sake, put on a bra, dry your hair, leave it down and fix your face!! You'll feel prettier while reading what I have to share and you're welcome.